a black man x My 2 cents on myspace
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Ronald on
July 18, 2007 – 2:30 pm
OK, today browsing profiles this morning on myspace, I found on a girls page a blog post called… “A Real Man……….Is what Every Girl Needs”. So I read it, it was a fair opinion, but it’s not true, it’s her telling the differences between a nigga and a brother… Well heres what she wrote….
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=133901468&blogID=250079917
Not every black man wants to be a player,
A pimp, a perpatrator.
Because a real black man, a brother,
Is someone who is always down for his girl,
His queen, his voluptuous vixen.
Now niggas, niggas only
Care about three things,
Money, power, and sinful pleasures-
But a brother can do something that a nigga connot…
A brother can love, and exhalt love.
He can care, not just for- but about,
His woman.
A brother can create and uphold a meaningful relationship
In which his special lady-
His treasure- can feel needed emotionally,
Not just physically.
Someone with a hit it and quit it mindset
Can only be called one thing:
A coward, afraid of comittment,
Too scared to share what he feels inside.
But a man- which is a word that isn’t dependent on age;
But on maturity, respect, and quality of life-
Shares his feelings, sheds his emotions,
And listens to his queen.
Much like I- a real woman-
Would do for you…
If I were your Woman, and you were my man.
Heres my response:
imma a brother with a cause a reason.
but i’m still a nigga.
see, you can cut nappy hair but not nappy ways.
it’s difficult, ur confused and this is wrong.
niggas can be just as good as a gentlemen.
alot of girls talk to me, and they say it’s like talking to a 30 year old. i’m just intelligent. not to brag but i am. but i’m still a nigga.
a brother still does niggerish things. itz just your covering one side of things. which is love and life.
if u born a nigga u always gonna be a nigga. thats what old folks tell me.
and if u been to any ghetto than u kno it well.
see a black man can get a million dollars, talk like a white man, dress like a white man, love boosie like a white man, but at the end of the day when he get in his benz.
he’s still a nigga. in a coupe….
ur probably not going to understand this, but some “brothers” will. and some “niggas” will.
how do i know? i’m both. but overall a gentlemen.
peace..
I believe this is an important topic into day’s society. Because black men are stero typed as women degrading men, hit and go, never there for there kids. Well for one it’s just not black men. But she’s making it sound like women don’t make men do these things, which is wrong. Some women are just hoes, no matter what color, some girls cant help it. And a man’s gonna be a man, and do what he does it. No matter how he does it, it’s still the hit and go, the cheating, all of that. I’ve met girls who just spread without a man saying anything. Well I’ve met girls do that for anything. See I’m not the kind of girl that hits and goes. But when a girl does it, I’m forced to. I don’t love you, but you spread. Now, any regular man, gentlemen, white, black, asian, hispanic, whatever. If a girl spreads in one day of meeting, were going to fuck her. If you would’nt that’s alright, but the majority of men. So, men are not the ones to blame, but any girl that let’s a man do that to them. You can see what a man’s intentions are ahead of time, so make the right choices and moves women.
Even a well dressed suburban, gentlemen, will fuck a girl and leave forever, if she let’s him do it. He’ll just treat her like a gentlemen for that night.
So yall see what i’m saying now? It’s not just black people. It’s A MAN THING.
